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40 Years, 4,000 Weeks, and One Epic Celebration 🎉🚢💙

Food, fitness, and fun with my best friend—what more could I ask for? 😍🥂

Booking Utopia of the Seas for a Getaway Joint-40th-Birthday Cruise made it ridiculously easy (and fun!) to:

  • ✅stay on track with workouts (whether it was a great workout at their gym or sprinting up 18 flights of stairs for a spicy finisher 🔥),
  • ✅ stick to adequate...(ok more than adequate) protein intake (hello seafood at Windjammer's Buffet, and excellent eats and service at every restaurant - we personally loved Mason Jar, Chops Grille, and Coastal Kitchen!)
  • ✅enjoy incredible entertainment (Highlights: The Aqua80too show was next-level—80s jams and dancing + aerial acrobatics? Yes, please! 🤘, and soaking in some fun and sun during our Perfect Day at CocoCay 🌴✨)

But beyond all that, this trip, which we scheduled to fall right between our 40th birthdays, was a moment to pause, reflect, and celebrate.

A couple of years ago, I read Four Thousand Weeks by Oliver Burkeman - and it hit me: If we’re lucky enough to live to be 80, we get just over 4,000 weeks in a lifetime. That’s it. Time is the most valuable, nonrenewable resource we have.

Mindful Moment Reading Recommendations:

  • https://tinyurl.com/bwb-4000-weeks <-- highly recommend 4,000 weeks, especially if you are in a time of transition, be it career change or life phase!
  • https://tinyurl.com/bwb-meditations-for-mortals  ⬅️ I'm also currently really enjoying slowly making my way through Burkeman's newer book, Meditations for Mortals - styled more as a daily devotional of sorts (nonreligious, think more like a philosophy / mindfulness tidbit to chew on daily)

At 40, I’m choosing to spend that limited resurce well. To mark and celebrate the halfway(ish) point with the person I love most. To appreciate where I’ve been and dream about what’s ahead. And to wake up every damn day living my version of a perfect day—whether I’m at CocoCay or just cozied up at home. 💫

Here’s to whatever comes next. 🥂

#FourThousandWeeks #BestFriendForLife #UtopiaOfTheSeas #PerfectDayAtCocoCay #ThisIs40

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